You asked me why are guys like this
Suddenly stop texting or replying to a girl
I don't know how to say it, I mean face to face
Because the truth is always ugly, the answer will always be ugly
But first of all, I would like to say not all guys are like that
So don't give up in finding your another half (:
Here come the ugly truth: (You can just ignore if you don't wish to read)
These kind of guys, are what I called JERK ASS
They stop texting you because they lost interest
Or maybe at first you're just a substitute to him
If I'm not wrong, he just went through a breakup
Then he realized that he's not use to single life yet
Without someone to text or whatsoever make him weird or out of place
But he can't go back to the old one(EX gf)
Because they were not possible (Maybe at that moment)
Yea, so maybe he just want to find one substitute to like do the things that he can't do at that moment
Like someone to care about him
Someone to text him or ask how is he
Or Whatsoever we do in relationship
So once they find someone new, they will just hop onto another boat
That someone maybe is a substitute too
Or they somehow convince the old one and they will get back tgt
So they will also just hop back to the old boat
I totally understand how you feel, because I also went through the same thing before
And I was in your situation, really don't know what to do
Following your heart is a good thing
It may lead us to the bad stuffs or good stuffs
But if I were you at that time
I will also go for it
Because I know if I didn't go for it
I will also regret not going for it
Even though, I regret now
But at least I know I TRIED
And I know it was a mistake
伤心也过一天
高兴也过一天
还不如每天高高兴兴
Of course I'm not telling you to be happy now
I mean it also take time to cure
But once you can not think about him for a day
Don't think about him anymore
He's just a passerby in your life
Nothing important
P.S: Sorry, if I'm too straight forward. You're always be my very good friend (: If there's anything, I can always lend you my ear. A GUY EAR. DIFFERENT WOR.
